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212 Who's holding your organisation together?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Continuous Improvement & Execution
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

211 Don't judge the departures too quickly

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

210 When a good culture gets too comfortable

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

209 When better results aren't enough

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Continuous Improvement & Execution
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

208 Before you bring your old answers

Series 12: Quietly Contextual

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

207 The principle may travel. The practice may not.

Series 12: Quietly Contextual

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

206 The context you remember may no longer exist

Series 12: Quietly Contextual

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

205 The same leadership can mean something different here

Series 12: Quietly Contextual

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

204 What’s in your leadership suitcase?

Series 12: Quietly Contextual

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

203 When experience becomes an assumption

Series 12: Quietly Contextual

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Decision Making & Judgement
Principles
Understand Clarify Improve

202 When you’re part of the problem.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

201 The person in the corner.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

200 200 videos. Thank you.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

199 Don't make your successor become you

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

198 What do you owe the people in the room?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

197 Fresh eyes don't always have the answer

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

196 The politics of letting someone else win

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Influence & Organisational Politics
Principles
Understand Trust Inspire

195 You started this journey before they did

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Influence & Organisational Politics
Principles
Understand Trust Inspire

194 Your reaction teaches them what to tell you

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

193 Why not start with 100% trust?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

192 Would you judge someone else the same way?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Fairness & Inclusion
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

191 When looking fair becomes unfair

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Fairness & Inclusion
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

190 Quietly Coping #6: don't wait until you stop

Series 11: Quietly Coping

Sophie-Maria Mac Fadden

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

189 Quietly Coping #5: everything doesn't deserve your best

Series 11: Quietly Coping

Sophie-Maria Mac Fadden

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

188 Quietly Coping #4: listen to the broken record

Series 11: Quietly Coping

Sophie-Maria Mac Fadden

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

187 Quietly Coping #3: the big green tick

Series 11: Quietly Coping

Sophie-Maria Mac Fadden

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Decision Making & Judgement
Principles
Understand Clarify Improve

186 Quietly Coping #2: take your own advice

Series 11: Quietly Coping

Sophie-Maria Mac Fadden

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

185 Quietly Coping #1: when your world starts to shrink

Series 11: Quietly Coping

Sophie-Maria Mac Fadden

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

184 Don't build your future on a temporary fix.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Continuous Improvement & Execution
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

183 Who do people actually listen to?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Influence & Organisational Politics
Principles
Understand Trust Inspire

182 You've got nothing to prove to me.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

181 Who are you overlooking?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

180 Have you decided while they're still thinking?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

179 What aren't people telling you?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

178 The two words that can change a difficult conversation.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

177 The three words every leader should use more often.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

176 You can learn a lot from the way someone opens a door.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

175 Trust me, I cannot tell you why, yet.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

174 What is this annoyance really trying to tell me?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

173 Quietly Avoiding #7: the bill always arrives eventually.

Series 10: Quietly Avoiding

Samuel Okafor

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

172 Quietly Avoiding #6: why leaders avoid uncertainty.

Series 10: Quietly Avoiding

Samuel Okafor

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

171 Quietly Avoiding #5: accountability postponed is accountability multiplied.

Series 10: Quietly Avoiding

Samuel Okafor

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

170 Quietly Avoiding #4: conflict rarely improves by itself.

Series 10: Quietly Avoiding

Samuel Okafor

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

169 Quietly Avoiding #3: why feedback becomes vague.

Series 10: Quietly Avoiding

Samuel Okafor

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

168 Quietly Avoiding #2: the problem doesn't wait for you.

Series 10: Quietly Avoiding

Samuel Okafor

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

167 Quietly Avoiding #1: why difficult conversations get delayed.

Series 10: Quietly Avoiding

Samuel Okafor

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

166 Good employees quietly leave mentally before they leave physically.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

165 The second question is often the important one.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

164 Why does this meeting exist?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

163 Twenty years of experience?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

162 Why the flight plan changed.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

161 Where do you point the spotlight?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

160 But I told them.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

159 The question that turns critics into contributors.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Continuous Improvement & Execution
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

158 Look for the qualities that do not announce themselves.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Decision Making & Judgement
Principles
Understand Clarify Improve

157 The people who know you best might spot burnout first.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

156 Some workplaces reward visibility more than value.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

155 Private agreement is not public commitment.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

154 Confidence speaks first. Wisdom often waits.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Decision Making & Judgement
Principles
Understand Clarify Improve

153 Everyone says so does not mean everyone thinks so.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

152 The first five minutes of a meeting reveal a lot.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

151 Some people never realise they became the bottleneck.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Teams & Collaboration
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

150 Quietly Hiring #14: the interview begins before anyone asks the first question.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

149 Quietly Hiring #13: people stay for culture far longer than salary.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

148 Quietly Hiring #12: some people interview brilliantly and work terribly.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

147 Quietly Hiring #11: desperation creates poor hiring decisions.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

146 Quietly Hiring #10: good recruitment is rarely rushed.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

145 Quietly Hiring #9: recruitment tells candidates more than you think.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

144 Quietly Hiring #8: interviews are performances for both sides.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

143 Quietly Hiring #7: people decide whether it feels safe before they start.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

142 Quietly Hiring #6: people decide whether they belong surprisingly quickly.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

141 Quietly Hiring #5: the best candidate on paper is not always the best colleague.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

140 Quietly Hiring #4: references rarely tell the whole story.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

139 Quietly Hiring #3: we often hire people who remind us of ourselves.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

138 Quietly Hiring #2: the most important qualities are rarely on a CV.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

137 Quietly Hiring #1: interviews often reward confidence over suitability.

Series 9: Quietly Hiring

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

136 People copy what leaders repeatedly tolerate.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

135 The first job is to calm the conversation.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

134 Some workplaces reward being seen more than being useful.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Influence & Organisational Politics
Principles
Understand Trust Inspire

133 People judge fairness by how it feels, not just how it looks.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Fairness & Inclusion
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

132 Leaders often silence people without meaning to.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

131 Quietly Building #5: performing looks effortless because of everything that came before.

Series 8: Quietly Building

Rosie Lin

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Teams & Collaboration
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

130 Quietly Building #4: norming is where trust becomes habit.

Series 8: Quietly Building

Rosie Lin

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Teams & Collaboration
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

129 Quietly Building #3: storming is a sign people finally care.

Series 8: Quietly Building

Rosie Lin

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Teams & Collaboration
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

128 Quietly Building #2: every team starts by testing each other.

Series 8: Quietly Building

Rosie Lin

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Teams & Collaboration
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

127 Quietly Building #1: strong teams are built before they are needed.

Series 8: Quietly Building

Rosie Lin

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Teams & Collaboration
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

126 Strong leaders lower emotional temperature first.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

125 Correct in private whenever you can.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

124 Some teams become addicted to urgency.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

123 The way people leave organisations tells you a lot.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Hiring & Retention
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

122 Sleep on it.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Decision Making & Judgement
Principles
Understand Clarify Improve

121 Some people mistake calmness for weakness.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

120 Quietly Noticing #10: people feel they belong through small moments.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

119 Quietly Noticing #9: emotions are more contagious than you think.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

118 Quietly Noticing #8: confidence rarely needs to announce itself.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

117 Quietly Noticing #7: people notice how you treat those who cannot help you.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Fairness & Inclusion
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

116 Quietly Noticing #6: listen to what people joke about.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

115 Quietly Noticing #5: people rarely forget how you made them feel.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

114 Quietly Noticing #4: not every difficult conversation is about attitude.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

113 Quietly Noticing #3: people test the water before they trust you.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

112 Quietly Noticing #2: the meeting starts before the agenda.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

111 Quietly Noticing #1: pressure reveals the leader people really follow.

Series 7: Quietly Noticing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

110 Leaders often underestimate how visible their behaviour is.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

109 Emotional reactions usually shrink once conversations happen properly.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

108 People rarely notice the people preventing problems.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

107 Some people fear embarrassment more than failure.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

106 Good cultures are usually built through repetition, not speeches.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

105 Leaders sometimes answer questions people never actually asked.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

104 The atmosphere before a meeting often tells you more than the meeting itself.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

103 Urgency and importance are not the same thing.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Decision Making & Judgement
Principles
Understand Clarify Improve

102 Your attention tells people how much they matter.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

101 Leaders quietly train people how to approach them.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

100 What 99 videos taught me.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

99 Quietly Miscommunicating #10: people are often arguing about definitions.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

98 Quietly Miscommunicating #9: timing changes how messages feel.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

97 Quietly Miscommunicating #8: fast replies are not always thoughtful replies.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

96 Quietly Miscommunicating #7: people hear criticism louder than praise.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

95 Quietly Miscommunicating #6: BCC changes the tone of trust.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

94 Quietly Miscommunicating #5: long explanations often create confusion.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

93 Quietly Miscommunicating #4: “per my last email…” is rarely neutral.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

92 Quietly Miscommunicating #3: silence communicates too.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

91 Quietly Miscommunicating #2: blanket emails are often avoidance.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

90 Quietly Miscommunicating #1: tone sounds different in your head.

Series 6: Quietly Miscommunicating

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

89 Some people need encouragement more than advice.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

88 Trust usually disappears gradually, not suddenly.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

87 People watch how leaders react to inconvenience.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

86 People test safety before they trust it.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

85 Leaders often speak first when they should listen first.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

84 Most change fails before it starts.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

83 Some meetings should have been messages.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

82 The most dangerous words in leadership are “they already know”.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Vision, Strategy & Direction
Principles
Inspire Clarify Improve

81 What do you want? What do you need?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

80 Small frustrations damage culture quietly.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

79 Success can become a leadership trap.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

78 Panic quietly destroys judgement.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Decision Making & Judgement
Principles
Understand Clarify Improve

77 Why teams wait for permission.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Teams & Collaboration
Principles
Trust Develop Inspire

76 Some leaders create dependence accidentally.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

75 Quietly competent people are often underestimated.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

74 Leaders often inherit emotional climates they did not create.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

73 Do people really need more management, or do they just need more clarity?

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Vision, Strategy & Direction
Principles
Inspire Clarify Improve

72 Quietly Regretting #10: I underestimated exhaustion.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

71 Quietly Regretting #9: I thought clarity once was enough.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

70 Quietly Regretting #8: I underestimated how much my mood affected others.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

69 Quietly Regretting #7: I solved problems too quickly.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

68 Quietly Regretting #6: I expected agreement to be enough.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

67 Quietly Regretting #5: I sometimes assumed the worst too quickly.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

66 Quietly Regretting #4: I confused praise with recognition.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

65 Quietly Regretting #3: I expected people to be consistent every day.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

64 Quietly Regretting #2: I used to check in far too little.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

63 Quietly Regretting #1: I used to check in far too often.

Series 5: Quietly Regretting

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

62 “Happy birthday” impacts more than we think.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

61 Psychological safety is tested quietly first.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

60 Quietly Embarrassing #3: how emotionally healthy people handle embarrassment differently.

Series 4: Quietly Embarrassing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

59 Quietly Embarrassing #2: why embarrassment happens more often than people realise.

Series 4: Quietly Embarrassing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

58 Quietly Embarrassing #1: people remember embarrassment for a very long time.

Series 4: Quietly Embarrassing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

57 Some leaders accidentally create dependency.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

56 People usually feel unfairness before they discuss it.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Fairness & Inclusion
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

55 Workplaces often move on before people emotionally do.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

54 Some people are not rude. They are exhausted.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

53 Being supportive does not mean being endlessly available.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

52 Why visibility wrongly beats value at work.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Influence & Organisational Politics
Principles
Understand Trust Inspire

51 Confidence changes when accountability becomes real.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

50 What workplaces ignore reveals a lot about them.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

49 Most workplace tension starts long before the argument.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

48 Why some teams stop telling leaders the truth.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

47 How pressure quietly disconnects people at work.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

46 Calmness is more contagious than leaders realise.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

45 Why rushed feedback often backfires.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

44 The people who complain least are sometimes struggling most.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

43 Reliability matters more than charisma over time.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

42 Some leaders make people nervous without realising it.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

41 Why people slowly stop speaking in meetings.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

40 Quietly Controversial #6: why meetings exhaust people.

Series 3: Quietly Controversial

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

39 Quietly Controversial #5: being approachable does not mean being endlessly available.

Series 3: Quietly Controversial

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

38 Quietly Controversial #4: it is OK to email colleagues at any time of day (or night).

Series 3: Quietly Controversial

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

37 Quietly Controversial #3: meetings reward confidence more than competence.

Series 3: Quietly Controversial

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Meetings, Systems & Ways of Working
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

36 Quietly Controversial #2: open-plan offices damage concentration.

Series 3: Quietly Controversial

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

35 Quietly Controversial #1: not every good employee wants promotion.

Series 3: Quietly Controversial

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Motivation & Recognition
Principles
Inspire Develop Trust

34 The danger of leaders who confuse control with standards.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

33 Why constant urgency destroys good thinking.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

32 Why some employees stop contributing ideas.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

31 The problem with leaders who always need visibility.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Influence & Organisational Politics
Principles
Understand Trust Inspire

30 Quietly Changing #7: Skills.

Series 2: Quietly Changing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

29 Quietly Changing #6: Incentives.

Series 2: Quietly Changing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

28 Quietly Changing #5: Resources.

Series 2: Quietly Changing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

27 Quietly Changing #4: Action plan.

Series 2: Quietly Changing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

26 Quietly Changing #3: Vision.

Series 2: Quietly Changing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

25 Quietly Changing #2: What reactions are really telling you.

Series 2: Quietly Changing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

24 Quietly Changing #1: VARIS.

Series 2: Quietly Changing

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Adaptability & Change
Principles
Understand Inspire Improve

23 Reflection means very little if nothing changes afterwards.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Continuous Improvement & Execution
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

22 Reflection before blame.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

21 Disagree with the point, not the person.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Conflict & Difficult Conversations
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

20 Quietly Coaching #6: belief is everything.

Series 1: Quietly Coaching

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

19 Quietly Coaching #5: don’t rush to fix everything.

Series 1: Quietly Coaching

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

18 Quietly Coaching #4: don’t fall into the mentor trap.

Series 1: Quietly Coaching

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

17 Quietly Coaching #3: listen longer than feels comfortable.

Series 1: Quietly Coaching

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

16 Quietly Coaching #2: avoid saying, “Why?”.

Series 1: Quietly Coaching

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

15 Quietly Coaching #1: why coaching matters.

Series 1: Quietly Coaching

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Coaching & Development
Principles
Understand Develop Inspire

14 Don’t prove, improve.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Organisations
Topic
Continuous Improvement & Execution
Principles
Clarify Develop Improve

13 Leadership starts earlier than we think.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

12 People make mistakes. How you handle them is key.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

11 The quietest person in the team is often watching everything.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Trust & Psychological Safety
Principles
Understand Trust Develop

10 The most underrated workplace skill: reliability.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Individuals
Topic
Accountability & Performance
Principles
Clarify Trust Improve

9 The difference between being busy and being effective.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Wellbeing & Workload
Principles
Understand Clarify Develop

8 “Help me understand…” is more powerful than you think.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

7 New to leadership? Avoid this common mistake.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Personal Growth & Self Awareness
Principles
Understand Develop Improve

6 The power of “and” instead of “but”.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

5 “Quick question…” never means a quick question.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Communication
Principles
Understand Clarify Inspire

4 Character and consistency above presentation.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify

3 If you make a mistake, apologise.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Emotional Intelligence
Principles
Understand Trust Clarify

2 Small moments shape culture.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Teams
Topic
Culture & Belonging
Principles
Trust Inspire Develop

1 A little introduction from me.

Martin Mercer

Quietly Leading Yourself
Topic
Leadership Presence
Principles
Inspire Trust Clarify